Tribute - Esther Lum
Ladies and gentlemen, today we come together to honor the life and legacy of my father, John Che Muleh—a man who lived by a set of unwavering core values that profoundly impacted everyone who knew him. While his passing has left an irreplaceable void, I find comfort in the time we shared, especially in his final moments, where I was privileged to be by his side.
A Man of Integrity and Dedication: My father was more than just a presence in my life; he was my anchor, mentor, and role model. He led by example, demonstrating the value of hard work and the importance of integrity. His dedication to everything he undertook whether at work, at home, or within our community was an inspiration to all. My dad didn’t just preach values; he embodied them, showing me what it means to live a life of purpose and honesty.
A Heart Overflowing with Compassion: His kindness was boundless, extending beyond family to embrace friends, neighbors, and even strangers. Our home became a sanctuary for those in need, where he welcomed everyone with warmth and open arms. His compassion taught me the true meaning of generosity—of giving without expectation and always finding ways to bring comfort and joy to others.
A Teacher and Guide: Through countless stories and shared moments, my father instilled in me a love for life and learning. His wisdom shaped my perspective, his humor lightened my heart, and his unwavering support gave me the courage to face any challenge. Even in difficult times, he demonstrated resilience and strength, showing me that with faith and determination, we can endure anything.
Memories to Cherish, Lessons to Uphold: The memories of his laughter, his advice, and the quiet moments we shared will forever remain in my heart. Today, as we celebrate his life, let us also reflect on the values he held dear—integrity, compassion, dedication, and love. These values are his legacy, gifts that he left behind to guide us all.
An Inspiring Legacy: Though he is no longer with us, his spirit will live on, inspiring us to live with kindness, courage, and purpose. Thank you for being here to honor my father’s legacy. Your support is a testament to the incredible man he was and the impact he made on so many lives.
Dad, may your soul and those of the faithful departed—Mama Sirri Odilia, Josephine Nchang, Philip Black, and Sister Joan—rest in perfect peace.
Esther Lum
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"On Oct 10th,I had a conversation with you. I pleaded with you to wait till I get married before going. I thought you didn't hear...but you did. All I can say is thank you for waiting. Your presence was a blessing. It's unfortunate that we're mourning right after celebrating but a win is a win."
Afanwi Fubienka(Grand Daughter)
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Grandpa taught me to approach life with courage and honesty. He was a steady presence, a man who believed that true character was shown not in words but in actions. He was always there for family, friends, and anyone in need, never asking for anything in return. He loved speaking about his life experiences, and his stories had a magic to them, drawing you in so deeply that you felt like you’d lived the experience right alongside him. Though his time with us has ended, his wisdom and influence will live on forever.
Abongwi Fubienka
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Tribute to Pa John Chenwi , Alias John Bafut
Today, we gather to celebrate the extraordinary life of Pa John Chenwi, a remarkable father-in-law, mentor, and friend. His passing at 99 leaves a profound void, but his legacy shines ever brighter in our hearts.
A Cherished Father-in-Law: Pa John was more than a father-in-law; he was a guiding light, confidant, and unwavering source of strength. His love, wisdom, and support enriched our lives in ways words cannot fully express.
A Life of Unwavering Joy: Pa’s most inspiring quality was his steadfast commitment to joy. No matter the challenges he faced, Pa John never allowed anything to dim his spirit. He radiated a contagious positivity, encouraging everyone around him to embrace life with happiness and gratitude.
Wisdom and Guidance: Pa John’s counsel and wealth of experience guided us through life’s trials with courage and resilience. His unwavering support helped shape our values, choices, and the people we’ve become. A Devoted Family Man: As a loving husband, father, and grandfather, Pa John's love knew no bounds. His warmth, kindness, and generosity created countless cherished memories that we will hold close forever.
A Lasting Impact on the Community: Pa John’s contributions to our community will never fade. His leadership, philanthropy, and dedication to positive change will continue to inspire those who knew him and even those who didn’t.
Lessons from His Life: From Pa John's example, we’ve learned invaluable lessons:
Joy is a choice.
Love conquers all.
Resilience defines strength.
Family is everything.
Grateful Memories: We cherish:
Moments filled with laughter.
Conversations rich with wisdom.
The gift of his unconditional love.
A Legacy That Lives On Pa John, your love, wisdom, and impact will forever reside in our hearts. Your memory inspires us to live with the kindness, compassion, and boundless joy that you embodied. May you and Neba Fred Fuh your grandson, Mami John Bafut, and the rest of the departed rest in peace in the lord.
Your Son in law, Nteuhndah Julius Fubienka