Eulogy - Esther Lum
Ladies and gentlemen, today we come together to honor the life and legacy of my father, John Che Muleh—a man who lived by a set of unwavering core values that profoundly impacted everyone who knew him. While his passing has left an irreplaceable void, I find comfort in the time we shared, especially in his final moments, where I was privileged to be by his side. A Man of Integrity and Dedication: My father was more than just a presence in my life; he was my anchor, mentor, and role model. He led by example, demonstrating the value of hard work and the importance of integrity. His dedication to everything he undertook whether at work, at home, or within our community was an inspiration to all. My dad didn’t just preach values; he embodied them, showing me what it means to live a life of purpose and honesty.
A Heart Overflowing with Compassion: His kindness was boundless, extending beyond family to embrace friends, neighbors, and even strangers. Our home became a sanctuary for those in need, where he welcomed everyone with warmth and open arms. His compassion taught me the true meaning of generosity—of giving without expectation and always finding ways to bring comfort and joy to others.
A Teacher and Guide: Through countless stories and shared moments, my father instilled in me a love for life and learning. His wisdom shaped my perspective, his humor lightened my heart, and his unwavering support gave me the courage to face any challenge. Even in difficult times, he demonstrated resilience and strength, showing me that with faith and determination, we can endure anything.
Memories to Cherish, Lessons to Uphold: The memories of his laughter, his advice, and the quiet moments we shared will forever remain in my heart. Today, as we celebrate his life, let us also reflect on the values he held dear—integrity, compassion, dedication, and love. These values are his legacy, gifts that he left behind to guide us all.
An Inspiring Legacy: Though he is no longer with us, his spirit will live on, inspiring us to live with kindness, courage, and purpose. Thank you for being here to honor my father’s legacy. Your support is a testament to the incredible man he was and the impact he made on so many lives. Dad, may your soul and those of the faithful departed—Mama Sirri Odilia, Josephine Nchang, Philip Black, and Sister Joan—rest in perfect peace.
Esther Lum